Moving is an upheaval at the best of times, let alone when you’re relocating overseas or trying to integrate within a different community. If you’re on the move, here are some tips to help you get settled.
Sorting practical matters
Whether you’re moving to the UK from a different country, or you’re leaving the UK for a new life abroad, it’s essential to sort out the practicalities of your move as soon as possible. You’ll need to look into applying for visas with the help of immigration lawyers, find somewhere to live and a means of earning money, look for schools if you have children and tick off tasks like registering with a doctor and dentist and opening a bank account. These matters can be time-consuming and arduous, but once you’ve crossed them off your list, you can relax. If you have any questions or you need advice or guidance, there are people who can help. You can also utilise web resources and get advice from people who have made the move already via forums, social media groups and websites.
Bridging the gap when there is a language barrier
It can be incredibly difficult to settle into a new environment when you don’t speak the language. If you find yourself in this boat, the best thing to do is to try and introduce yourself to neighbours, colleagues and fellow parents using basic words and phrases. Explain that you are new to the area and that you are learning the language and looking to meet new people. You can book language lessons and courses, learn online and also develop your skills by listening to people talk and practising with them. Although it can be daunting, immersing yourself is the best and fastest way to learn.
Looking for like-minded souls
It’s incredibly reassuring to meet people who have similar interests and to find friends that you immediately click with, but this is not always easy to do. One way to find like-minded souls is to take advantage of online groups and communities that celebrate specific hobbies or get together to do activities. From yoga and dance classes to cycling, hiking and photography, use your passions and interests to meet new friends and get involved in community and local activities.
Socialising with your children
Children are often much more confident when it comes to walking up to people they’ve never met before and breaking the ice. If you have kids, socialise with them. Research local groups you can join, spend time talking to other parents at the school gates and once you feel more confident, arrange playdates or outings. Children often bring adults together and this can make it easier to meet people and build friendships.
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Moving to a different country or city can be exciting, but it can also be challenging. It’s wonderful to feel that you belong and to integrate into a community. If you’re planning a move, take these tips on board to reduce stress and anxiety, meet new people and make the most of your new life.